first of all i love the name you chose o and to answer your question the point of being loved and dating is to find a partner in life someone you want to spend the rest of your life with i would have to say love is like the good china it can sit on the shelf year after year never being used so when you finally use it it breaks...or... you can take it out and use it and cherish it and if a plate breaks oh well at least you got to use it and there is almost always another plate